I have been extra tired lately. VERY extra-tired. I go through spells of this and am always fairly convinced that there’s something wrong with me. It’s not normal for someone to get eight hours of sleep and need one – two naps during the day. I end up having conversations with my fiance like this:
grey: I think that I’m anemic.
fiance: oh?
grey: I have all the symptoms — fatigue, headache, difficulty concentrating, pale skin, leg cramps…
fiance: Funny, those sound like the same symptoms of anorexia.
Then, the next month…
grey: I think I have hypothyroidism.
fiance: You don’t say.
grey: No, really — I have all the symptoms. fatigue, dry hair, pale skin, cold intolerance, muscle cramps, depression, abnormal menstrual cycles….
fiance: Kinda like anorexia.
And again….
grey: I think I have mono.
fiance: Let me guess — lack of energy, loss of appetite and chills.
grey: Exactly!
fiance: You don’t have mono, you have anorexia.
grey: I could have anorexia AND mono.
fiance: Do you have a severe sore throat?
grey: Well…. not YET….
Humph. He is right — these could all be consequences of the eating disorder. For the most part I know this, but whenever I feel overly tired of cold or crappy, I really feel like it must be something else. My eating isn’t particularly worse that day — why should I feel worse?
I think that I forget that how I treat (or mistreat) my body compounds over time. If my eating has been off-track for the past three ways, having a great day today isn’t going to guarantee that I feel okay. And, even on a larger scale, I think that years of disorderedness has taken a toll on my body. My eating disorder is nowhere near as severe as it was back in high school, but I still haven’t been 100% over the years. Now I notice how prone to headaches I am (very prone), how I often have stomach aches, how dysfunctional I am on minimal sleep, etc. I can’t get away with the things that I used to be able to. Because my weight is higher and I’m eating more, this doesn’t make sense to me — clearly something ELSE must be wrong with me (like anemia or hypothyroidism or mono). But… maybe all the years of the eating disorder has taken a toll on my body. Beyond the bone density and menstrual issues, maybe I am just not as resilient as I once was.
However… I am still going to have labs done at some point to rule everything out. You know, just in case…. (and in secret hopes of proving my fiance wrong!)
Ignorant Doctor Comments
November 29, 2008Cammy wrote a post about an experience that I (and probably many individuals with eating disorders) have been able to relate to on many occasions–an appointment with an ED-ignorant physician. It happens all the time, and sometimes the professionals are VERY nice… they just don’t know anything about eating disorders. So, rather than commandeer her comments with my own experiences, I thought I’d dedicate a post to some of the more frustrating remarks that I’ve received from doctors (and nurses–not dietitians, therapists, psychiatrists, etc. I’ll save those for another day).
I feel like I could go on and on, but I will stop there. Back in the day I took a lot of things personally (like being told that “if you lose 5-10 lbs then we’ll start monitoring you” or “all your labs came back fine so you are A-OK”) and as an indication that I didn’t have a problem and was asking for help when I didn’t need it… but really, once you’ve seen enough doctors, you start to realize that most of them just don’t know. And the ones who do get it? It’s usually because either they themselves or their loved ones have struggled with an eating disorder in the past.
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